“Sometimes loneliness is God’s call for friendship with Him.”
Loneliness can come to us when we least expect it. It can be really hard to go through life thinking you’re on your own. The monotony of life can be rough on its own, but doing it without anyone by your side adds to it. But you never are. In fact, the loneliness you could be feeling could be a sign from God; He wants a friendship with you. He desires the best for you and hopes you will come to him for all you need. If you are feeling lonely, it could be his plea to you that it’s time to answer the call to a friendship with God. If you’re feeling lonely, take a break tonight and answer God’s call to a friendship with him.
“Those who leave everything in God’s hands will eventually see God’s hands in everything.”
Every night when I go to bed, I pray a decade of the rosary. At the end of praying, I say a little prayer where I give my next day up to God and I trust Him to guide me in the day and whatever happens the next day will be part of His plan for me. My mom suggested I start doing this when I was going through a hard time at school and I’ve been doing it ever since. It can be very difficult to trust God to take control of your life, but at the same time it can be very freeing. I am the type of person that needs to feel in control of everything in my life. But if I have to give control to someone else, I’m glad it’s God. God has a plan for your life, and if you trust Him, He can show it to you in time. When you put your day in God’s hands, you will notice a difference in how you feel. Take a break tonight and try to give God control of your life.
I don’t, have to know you, just to know you
Have been lied to at some point or place
Well, I can relate
And you’re wondering, if it’s worth it
Heartbroken, feeling worthless
Oh the hurt is too great
Like a punch in the face
But don’t forget
We’ve got something else in common
Bigger than all our pain and all our problems
This goes out to anyone down for the count
It’s not over
Don’t give up, don’t throw in the towel
Just remember, who you belong to
Let Me remind you
How this ends
Woah, we win
With the end of the school year soon to be in my rear view mirror, I have felt like I am losing in many ways. The end of the year brings a lot of stress and anxiety for me, which affects my life in more ways than one. The last few days have been particularly difficult. However, this song has given me hope that I will get through the end of the year and that I will win, because with God by my side, I can do it all.
This song has really shown me that with God, we don’t need to give up. If you feel like life is giving you many reasons to “throw in the towel,” remember we have something bigger than ourselves that can help us win this fight. You belong to God and He will get you through all the pain and problems you may be facing. If you need a pick me up or a reminder not to give up, take a break and listen to this song as a reminder to who you belong to and who has your back.
We won’t be told who we are
By the nation or the stars
We won’t believe in all the lies
We know the truth inside
Won’t question how we’re made
No, it wasn’t a mistake
And it’s not up for debate
We are the chosen
We are royalty
We are Your children
You set us free
You alone are our identity
I gave up listening to music for lent, so I wasn’t able to hear Colton Dixon’s new album until recently. After hearing it for the first time this week, I LOVE it. It has so many great songs that are inspiring and upbeat. The title track, Identity, is one of my favorites. We should never question who we are because we are made by the same person that created the stars. Our identity is found in God. Sometimes we lose sight of who we are because we are so caught up with trying to be like everyone else. We want the latest fashion trends, we want to have the perfect picture on Instagram, we want the perfect bikini body, the list goes on and on. But, the only thing we should want is knowledge that God is our creator and that we are made in His image and likeness. Take a break tonight and listen to this song (and the rest of the album, because it’s awesome) and remember who your identity is found in.
“I appeal to you, dear brothers and sisters, by the authority of our Lord Jesus Christ, to live in harmony with each other. Let there be no divisions in the church. Rather, be of one mind, united in thought and purpose.”
If you went to Catholic Mass on Sunday, you will have recognized this verse. This comes from the second reading and it could not have come at a more crucial time in our country. All over social media and in overheard conversations among people, all I see and hear is division. It breaks my heart to see people tear each other down because of different political beliefs. God calls us to live in harmony with one another and to have no divisions between us. Division is so present in our world right now. We keep ripping each other apart on social media and we think it’s ok. I have chosen to keep my mouth shut for the most part because of a fear of being looked at differently or being yelled at for the beliefs I have. I shouldn’t have to walk on eggshells around people who have different opinions than me, and you shouldn’t either. Take a break tonight and decide to make a conscious effort to break down the divisions and do your best to spread God’s love instead of further dividing each other.
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. It is about discovering who God wants you to be.”
As college students, we come to school with this idea that we are going to “find ourselves.” We make friends that we think will bring out the best in us, we partake in activities that will make us better and more well-rounded, and we make sure to get good grades that will make our parents proud. But all the while, instead of trying to “find ourselves,” we are trying to impress others. I often think that college students are put on a pedestal from the day we enroll until graduation. Society has certain rules for a college student and unless you follow them, you aren’t really a college student. If you don’t stay up late doing homework, overload your schedule, party, drink, and make life-long friends, do you even college? We have certain expectations for ourselves when we get to college, but sometimes, they don’t work out the way we want them to. This is where God comes in.
God wants us to be the best version of ourselves. He created us with the freedom to do as we please, but ultimately, He wants us to do the right thing. Instead of trying to “find myself” in college, I’m striving to be who God wants me to be. I am learning more and more about what that looks like every day. I see Him working in my life and I love the fact that I get to do His work through my life every day. Take a break tonight and think about ways you can start being who God wants you to be, rather than trying to “find yourself.”
“If you wouldn’t say it to a friend, don’t say it to yourself.”
Words are hurtful. No matter who they come from, they can be painful to hear. But somehow, when we tell them to ourselves, they aren’t as painful as they are believable. We don’t often treat ourselves the way we would treat other people. If we treated our friends the same way we treat ourselves, we would not have friends. Why don’t we treat ourselves as if we were our own friend? If you think about it, we are own own best friend. We have been there for ourselves through everything and we know what makes us feel better. But if we don’t try and support ourselves in the bad times like we would a friend, we aren’t treating ourselves right. Take a break tonight and think of ways to treat yourself more like a friend.
Get it together
That’s what I said to me
I put on the pressure
You could do better
Be who you supposed to be
But that’s when you came in
Right when I needed you
Said all of the things that I was believing
Not one of them were true
You’re lifting my head up
I was keeping my head down
I didn’t know love
But I do now
Cause You stood right there
And then You broke apart the lies
You told me I had something beautiful inside
You brought to life the part of me I thought had died
Cause You stood right there until I saw me
I saw me through Your eyes (Saw me)
I saw me through Your eyes (Saw me)
I saw me through Your eyes
Britt Nicole recently came out with a new album and this was the first single off it. I cannot express to you how much I enjoy this song in just written words. The message of this song is so poignant to many people today. We often compare ourselves to other people and put ourselves down because we aren’t skinny enough or we are too skinny or we have freckles or zits or whatever else society doesn’t say is acceptable to be pretty. But if we see ourselves through God’s eyes, we know that we are made in His image and likeness and are beautiful inside and out. God makes no mistakes, and he sees your worth. So if you start to doubt yourself and your abilities, remember who you and are how God sees you. Take a break tonight and listen to this song and reflect on how you think God sees you.
See what love the Father has bestowed on us
that we may be called the children of God.
Yet so we are.
The reason the world does not know us
is that it did not know him.
Beloved, we are God’s children now;
what we shall be has not yet been revealed.
We do know that when it is revealed we shall be like him,
for we shall see him as he is.
Everyone who has this hope based on him makes himself pure,
as he is pure.
I have always tried to make sure that when people look at me, they see God. I want to live my life the way God intends it to be. God’s plan for me is perfect and only he knows it. A lot of college kids (me included) are questioning what to do with the rest of their lives. I heard this reading today at mass and I immediately applied it to my life and all the uncertainties that lie ahead. I may not know what I’ll be doing when I graduate, but I know that God’s plan for me will be revealed in time. We are all children of God and he made us in his image and likeness to fulfill his plan for us. Fear not, for his plan will be revealed to you at the right time. Take a break tonight and pray to God to ask him for his help in remembering that he has a great plan for your life.